ANOTHER RELATIONSHIP

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I was just sitting at home watching, Will & Grace and got to thinking about Mel & the Professor's Blogradio show that airs tomorrow at 9/8 est on the topic of "Cheating"...I was also listening to Syleena Johnson's, "Another Relationship" cut and thought of the lasting affects infidelity could have on a person...It never feels good when it's you, so why do people continue to engage in more than one relationship at a time? HOWEVER, I was thinking while listening (her lyrics I will type in Red), to the song and what I came up with was while you might think you were being slick or making a pimp move could really mess with someone's head.. And, it could give them abandonment issues, contribute to them having low self-esteem and give them the sense that they are not worthy to be loved..(but we know in the final analysis they are in control of their self worth)...but I'm just saying if you are not part of the solution, then you are most definitely part of the problem... humm

I gave you my expectations of the relationship, and if we both chose why are you still playing games... I'm sitting at home waiting on you to come so we can spend a nice quiet night together and I have the house all cleaned, smelling good, I smell wonderful with your favorite fragrance, negligee and my Zsa Zsa Gabor slippers with the fur on them....Syleena Johnson is piping through the speakers singing her heart out,

I could just hear the anxiety in her voice, because she has not a clue why she is being cheated on....She totally feels at a lost because she felt that she had invested her time and energy into this nigga and he has renegged on the agreement. What does the other woman have that she doesn't, she is begging for some answers to her questions because she still loves him and wants so terribly for this thing to work.....

But, on a personal tip I feel that I am a prize so therefore I will not spend my time and energy on a relationship that is not going anywhere...You cannot make someone love you, so you have to pick your self up and keep it moving.. Because, at the end of the day all you have is yourself, and if you continue to let someone else control your thoughts and put the value on your self-worth, then you are putting your faith in the wrong counsel. You are something to somebody, and if you have to spend time alone getting to know you more intimately, then so be it....

"Associate yourself with men of good quality, if you esteem your own reputation. For tis better to be alone than in bad company"…George Washington