ANOTHER RELATIONSHIP

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I was just sitting at home watching, Will & Grace and got to thinking about Mel & the Professor's Blogradio show that airs tomorrow at 9/8 est on the topic of "Cheating"...I was also listening to Syleena Johnson's, "Another Relationship" cut and thought of the lasting affects infidelity could have on a person...It never feels good when it's you, so why do people continue to engage in more than one relationship at a time? HOWEVER, I was thinking while listening (her lyrics I will type in Red), to the song and what I came up with was while you might think you were being slick or making a pimp move could really mess with someone's head.. And, it could give them abandonment issues, contribute to them having low self-esteem and give them the sense that they are not worthy to be loved..(but we know in the final analysis they are in control of their self worth)...but I'm just saying if you are not part of the solution, then you are most definitely part of the problem... humm

I gave you my expectations of the relationship, and if we both chose why are you still playing games... I'm sitting at home waiting on you to come so we can spend a nice quiet night together and I have the house all cleaned, smelling good, I smell wonderful with your favorite fragrance, negligee and my Zsa Zsa Gabor slippers with the fur on them....Syleena Johnson is piping through the speakers singing her heart out,

I could just hear the anxiety in her voice, because she has not a clue why she is being cheated on....She totally feels at a lost because she felt that she had invested her time and energy into this nigga and he has renegged on the agreement. What does the other woman have that she doesn't, she is begging for some answers to her questions because she still loves him and wants so terribly for this thing to work.....

But, on a personal tip I feel that I am a prize so therefore I will not spend my time and energy on a relationship that is not going anywhere...You cannot make someone love you, so you have to pick your self up and keep it moving.. Because, at the end of the day all you have is yourself, and if you continue to let someone else control your thoughts and put the value on your self-worth, then you are putting your faith in the wrong counsel. You are something to somebody, and if you have to spend time alone getting to know you more intimately, then so be it....

"Associate yourself with men of good quality, if you esteem your own reputation. For tis better to be alone than in bad company"…George Washington

"Soloist" subject won't watch movie

'Soloist' subject won't watch movie
Published: April 21, 2009 at 6:03 PM


The schizophrenic musician whose life is portrayed in "The Soloist," won't watch the new Hollywood film because it is too disturbing for him, his friend said.

The movie is based on actual events and stars Jamie Foxx as homeless musical prodigy Nathaniel Ayers and Robert Downey Jr. as Steve Lopez, the Los Angeles Times columnist who befriends Ayers and brings attention to his talent.

The real-life Lopez told the New York Post Ayers attended the premiere of the movie about his life, but kept his eyes shut the entire time.

"He's frightened by things on TV screens or movie screens," Lopez said. "Nathaniel hears things and sees things we don't. ... His days are spent trying to figure out what's real and what's not. It doesn't help that, in this case, some of the images are representations of him, and that the movie includes some fairly dramatic scenes of his breakdown."

Director Joe Wright told the Post he hired hundreds of Ayers' friends and acquaintances from the Lamp homeless community center in Los Angeles to work on the movie.

"I felt far safer there than in the offices of Hollywood and Beverly Hills, where you're very likely to be stabbed in the back," Wright joked. "Downtown, I found the community to be very open and trusting. And with proper laughter. In Hollywood, if you say something funny, people kind of say: 'Ha. That's funny.' But they don't actually laugh, which I find slightly disconcerting. Whereas the members of Lamp, we had proper laughter. And tears."

I cannot wait to see this on Friday.

http://www.upi.com/Entertainment_News/2009/04/21/Soloist-subject-wont-watch-movie/UPI-75501240351418/

OFFICIALLY MISSING YOU

Tamia - Officially Missing You -



The teenage clerk at the grocery store kept looking at me really funny, because I came through his line with all these plastic produce bags. In all of these bags I had my goodies for tonights sexy. I had about a handful of white grapes, one jalepeno pepper, one peach, 5 strawberries, one lemon and I had to buy the whole jar of pickles and I had caramel sauce and some Cool Whip. Wow, I was getting moist in the store just thinking about what I had planned for tonight...


My baby was cuming home and I had a terrible itch that needed to be scratched. So, I had already taken a trip to the salon and got the hair did, nails done and my body waxed. I don't like hair on my body so I always have it waxed off. At first I started doing it just for me, but then my baby got excited with the way that it felt too so I knew it was all good. I had everything together, I had rubbed down the house and had it smelling all good. I brought new sheets for the bed, because he is very attentive and notices everything. He would like thfact that I had purchased some new linen for his homecoming. Everything was set so I ran me a bubble bath and soaked my body to make it all silky for my man. I want him to know he is HOME!!


After my bath I didn't fully dry off because the body oil that I like goes on better with damp skin. It gets into my pores and premeates all night, I don't want to leave any stones unturned. I walk through the living room and light some candles and I go into the kitchen for a last minute check on my surprise. I hear his key in the door and I get a tingle in my belly, because my baby is here and I am SO READY TO FEEL HIM, my breast stand at attention and my senses are heightened. He comes in the semi-lit kitchen where I am standing at the sink and lightly kisses my neck. WHEW WEEEE, I have missed him...HUMM I moan while he takes me around my waist and lets me know he has missed me as well...Then he says, BABY I HAVE MISSED ME SOME YOU!!!! He then starts rubbing my breast through my silk robe, that's all I have on because I don't have time to wait on him to undress me... I tell him to go get in the shower because I have to do something and I will be finished about time he gets out....He agrees and says, "what done got into you, I love coming home", you know you are a freaky little sumthin, sumthin....But, I'm only freaky for you baby, I assure him...


I have produced a great mixed cd for his homecoming also, and the song by Tamia, "Officially Missing You", is the first 3 songs. I have some Gerald Levert, "Feel Real", several Luther Vandross, The O'Jays, Donell Jones, Manhattans and LTD....I am getting my freak on tonight, and I mean it....Jonathan comes out of the bath with that big monster standing straight up and I just get torn up by just looking at it. He is packing 11 inches, (I measured so don't play) and it is as round as a can of Vienna sausage, I'm just saying....I then instruct him to lie on the bed and I blindfold him, he was kinda hesitate but he knew I had something wonderful for him. I then started feeding him my purchases from the store and he had to guess what it was that I was giving him. Of course he knew everything, and then I told him there was one more thing that I needed for him to guess. I got up on the bed and ever so slowly lowered my pelvis down to his face, lick this baby OOOHHHH, that shit feel too damn good.......Jonathan started sucking my honey like it was honey from a bee, ARGGHHH,


DAYUUUMMM BABY...


UUMMM....


"I MISSED YOU DADDY", I was so weak after that I had to lay down to get my self together.


Jonathan then started at my toes and worked his way up, when he got to Ms. Kitty he said he wanted me to turn around to the foot of the bed. Of course, I knew what that meant, so I had no problem obeying his commands. He turned around and started kissing me on my forehead and sucked my lips and would suck them semi-hard and then quickly release them so they would sorta pop...DAGGG BABY, I like it when he do that shit there... Jonathan then goes to my breast and gave them a wonderful workout, cuz he know I love that....but, I was really waiting on him to get to my pie because I knew that was cumming....Before he got there, I couldnt wait I grabbed his monster and started taking care of some serious bidness...I love this man and wanted him to KNOW THAT I WAS HIS WOMAN FA LIFE...I sucked him like my ice cream was melting on a 110 degree day in Texas, I would have sucked the skin off that mofo (If that's what he needed)... I didn't want to leave not one drop.....Because, remember I just bought these new SHEETS!!!

I AM SOOOOO CONFUSED, JUST TELL ME WHY...

I had been seeing on several websites about the Momma of the Year Award for stripping with kids in the room but, this is tooooo much. What really could be going through this girls head while she was dancing around shaking her ass to the camera with those lil bitty kids walking around? This is a crying shame, and the other people in the room who let it happen are just as much to blame...We are going to have to get it together people.

SO MUCH LOVE

Okay ya'll yesterday was about being the OTHER WOMAN, SIDELINE HO, SIDE PIECE, ETC...Today is about being the WIFE, MAIN, the Mama to Yo Kids...

Ya'll know I listen to music about 11 hours a day so errythang always comes back to music lyrics with me....My Ex Orlando used to always tell me that women put too much in to music, I beg to differ my little Young Buck...Maybe if these new artist would quit making so much bubble gum music people would have a better understanding on life....Back in the day even if yo Momma'nem didnt tell you something, some artist was singing about it and that helped a gurl to know how to deal with certain thangs, I'm just sayin...

Orlando once told me a story about him having a problem in his past relationship because he had a phone friend that his folks didnt know about....WRONG ANSWER, Cheating starts in the convo whether you want to believe it not....Thanks, SmokeNLove Doc, if you havent checked out his blog today, you should he is spittin much game ova there....Ladies when your man is not telling you what you need to hear, or giving you compliments, another mofo in your ear telling you that he wouldn't do you like that, you are a dime piece in his eyes (even though you were a size 20...He likes big boneded WOMEN!!!! See that's how you end up johnny wide on somebody's couch wondering HOW IN THE HELL DID I GET HERE?

But, back to my regularly scheduled programming...Men do you know how devastating it is for a GOOD WOMAN, (Meaning Me) feels when the man she has chosen, given her heart to, SEXED YOU HOW YOU WANTED IT, (even though some of that shit, skurred the hell out of me and plus it HURTED REAL BAD) been there for him through whatever he was going through, i.e. financial setbacks, problems @ work, baby mama drama, yo Mammy acting a fool an plotting shit behind my back and just BEING THAT SHOULDER FOR YOU TO LEAN ON... And you turn your stopid ass around and do me DIRTY.....This is not a male bashing blog, I LOVE ME SOME BALD HEADED BLACK NIGGA....DONT EVER GET THAT TWISTED PUHLEEZE...But, that shit does not feel good when it is YOU, EVER...

So, B ANGIE B'S question is , "Why do you have to look for LOVE out there, when there's so much LOVE HERE? As my Philosophy Professor, Dr. Hardy, at Tennessee State University says, "That's one of those endearing questions"...Something to make you go, HUM...GOOD QUESTION, FELLA'S WWWWHHHHYYY????

The Open Toed Shoe Pledge

----- Alright ladies, it's that time of year once again!!! I think we need to be reminded of a few things. So my sisters, PLEASE, raise your big toes and repeat after me below...

The Open Toed Shoe Pledge As a member of the Cute Girl Sisterhood, I pledge to follow the Rules when wearing sandals and other open-toe shoes:




I promise to always wear sandals that fit. My toes will not hang over and touch the ground, nor will my heels spill over the backs. And the sides and tops of my feet will not pudge out between the straps.


I will go polish-free or vow to keep the polish fresh, intact and chip-free. I will not cheat and just touch up my big toe.

I will sand down any mounds of skin before they turn hard and yellow. I will shave the hairs off my big toe.

I won't wear pantyhose even if my misinformed girlfriend, coworker, mother, sister tells me the toe seam really will stay under my toes if I tuck it there.

If a strap breaks, I won't duct-tape, pin, glue or tuck it back into place hoping it will stay put. I will get my shoe fixed or toss it.

I will not live in corn denial; rather I will lean on my good friend Dr. S choll's if my feet need him.

I will resist the urge to buy jelly shoes at Payless for the low, low price of $4.99 even if my feet are small enough to fit into the kids' sizes.

This is out of concern for my safety, and the safety of others. No one can walk properly when standing in a pool of sweat and I would hate to take someone down with me as I fall and break my ankle.

I will take my toe ring off toward the end of the day if my toes swell and begin to look like Vienna sausages.

I will be brutally honest with my girlfriend/sister/coworker when she asks me if her feet are too ugly to wear sandals. Someone has to tell her that her toes are as long as my fingers and no sandal makes creepy feet look good.

I will promise if I wear flip flops that I will ensure that they ac tually flip and flop, making the correct noise while walking and I will swear NOT to slide or drag my feet while wearing them.

I will promise to go to my local nail salon at least once per season and have a real pedicure (they are about $35 and worth EVERY penny).

I will promise to throw away any white/off-white sandals that show signs of wear... nothing is tackier than dirty white sandals.

Don't keep this to yourself - pass it on to other sisters

THE FIRST DOG'S WELCOME TO THE WHITE HOUSE

Bo Obama has moved into 1600 Pennsylvania Avenue and the nation has been watching and waiting for his arrival. Bo, a Portuguese Water Dog was chosen because of Malia's allergies. Everyone has their panties in a bunch because he didn't get the dog from a shelter. But, breeded dogs rarely show up at your round the mill shelter, so the Obama's gave monies to the Humane Society in D.C.

http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20090412/ap_on_go_pr_wh/obama_promised_puppy

POWERFUL, NATURALLY

The breed: Portuguese water dog

Appearance: Robust, with a rectangular outline, and strong shoulders. A hard, penetrating and attentive expression. Coat can be black, white, brown, or combination of those colours
Temperament: Loyal and obedient to owners. Their pleasant disposition makes them good companions

Characteristics: Intelligent, brave and energetic. Exceptional swimming and diving ability, assisted by developed muscles and powerful tail, used as a rudder

History: The breed is traced back to the Portuguese Algarve coast, where fishermen taught them to retrieve tackle and drive fish into nets. The first written reference, by a monk in 1297, relates how one dog pulled a dying sailor from the sea. Introduced to America in 1968, with the arrival of a bitch named Chenze

Sources: http://www.thekennelclub.org.uk/ , the Portuguese Water Dog club of America

JAMIE FOXX APOLOGIZES TO MILEY ON LENO

My boy Jamie Foxx has overstepped his boundaries on his Satellite radio show with some terrible remarks about 16 year old, Miley Cyrus. I usually take up for Jamie, but he did too alittle too much this time and had to come clean on the Tonight Show with Jay Leno. I am happy that he did the right thing, cuz his new movie, "The Soloist" is coming out on April 24th and I will definitely be there.

NAACP CELEBRATING 100 YEARS

The NAACP and The Crisis Publishing Company have joined with Gibbs Smith to bring you a visually stunning and groundbreaking new book that captures the 100 years of the NAACP and The Crisis, NAACP: Celebrating a Century, 100 Years in Pictures ($40.00; 1-4236-0527-6; HC; 600 Color and B&W Photos; 472 Pages; February 2009). The NAACP is built on the collective courage of thousands of people of all races, nationalities and faiths united in one premise: that all men and women are created equal. From the ballot box to the boardroom, the NAACP has led the fight for civil rights and social justice.

NAACP: Celebrating a Century, 100 Years in Pictures covers the founding of the organization by Ida Wells-Barnett, W. E. B. Du Bois, Henry Moscowitz, Mary White Ovington, Oswald Garrison Villiard, and William English Walling, and follows it through to its widespread influence today. Featuring over 600 photos from the NAACP and Library of Congress archives, some of them published for the first time, NAACP: Celebrating a Century, 100 Years in Pictures is a must-have!

Copies of this groundbreaking book are available for sale directly at www.NAACP.org as well as all major book retailers, independent bookstores and online retailers. Buy your copy today!

JESSE JACKSON COOPERATING WITH PROBE

Poor Jesse Jackson, Jr., is still in hot water after talking to former Governor Rod Blagojevich. He stated in back in December that he had not done anything wrong in the alleged selling of the senate seat in Illinois, but it seems that Blago is trying to take everyone down with him.

Jackson is cooperating with an Illinois review board on the indictment of the King of Comb-over's but, it doesn't look to good for career at this point. Blago was indicted last week on several charges from corruption to attempting to sell a senate seat. He is a piece of work, to say the least and while being indicted was with the family at the Disney World Resort.

Jesse Louis Jackson, Jr. (born March 11, 1965) is a Democratic member of the United States House of Representatives in the Illinois 2nd congressional district, which includes Southland southeast suburbs and the Chicago Southside. He is the son of activist and former presidential candidate Jesse Jackson, Sr., and has served in his current post since winning a special election on December 12, 1995. His wife, Sandi Jackson, serves on Chicago City Council. Jackson also served as National co-chairman of President Barack Obama's presidential campaign.

I personally like the things that Jackson has done for Chicago and hope he can continue serving in the House after all this mess is over. Why is it that people get caught and start snitching all the time?